The War against Marriage, Part 2 of 4

An overview of Part 1, Adam and Eve 

  • God instituted marriage with Adam and Eve, the first couple.  They lived in unity with God in the Garden of Eden.  It was God’s plan to test their love and loyalty.  He allowed the serpent to test their obedience.  They fell into the trap, disobeyed God and Adam lost his position as ruler over God’s creation.  The devil, Satan, became ruler of the world.   
  • Genesis 3 explains how the world was divided into two opposing kingdoms.  One is the Kingdom of Light with God as its Ruler.  The opposing kingdom of darkness has Satan as its ruler.

Jesus affirmed the kingdom of Satan 

  • After Jesus fasted 40 days in the desert, He was tempted by the devil.  Satan took Him to a high mountain and showed Him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendour.  He promised Jesus, ‘All this I will give you, if you will bow down and worship me.’ 1  Of course Jesus refused, but He did not call the devil a liar when he claimed that the kingdoms of the world belong to him.  
  • Jesus also called Satan, the prince of this world. 2
  • 1 John 5:19b declares, ‘…the whole world is under the control of the evil one.’  
  • Jesus drove out a deaf and dumb spirit in a man.   The Pharisees accused Him that He did it by Beelzebub, the prince of demons.  It was an extremely crass insult.  Jesus’ answer was, ‘If Satan drives out Satan, he is divided against Himself.  How then can his kingdomstand?’  Jesus added, ‘But if I drive out demons by the Spirit of God, then the Kingdom of God has come upon you.’
  • It is logical that Jesus would affirm Satan’s rule over the world.  He, Jesus, is the Messiah who would in time crush the head of Satan.
  • Because the world is under the control of Satan, he has the ‘weapons’ of the world at his disposal, to oppose God.  They include the money, law, education, media and entertainment systems and other things of the world.  He uses them to spread lies about God and the Bible.  
  • Satan’s message to people is very enticing: do what you want and live as you like.  That means you don’t bother about God and His plans for an eternal Kingdom.  So disobedience to God’s Word and lawlessness is the main characteristic of the people of the world.  1 John 2:16 tells us, ‘For everything in the world – the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does, comes not from the Father, but from the world.‘  
  • The ‘world’ is those people who are not interested in God’s way of holiness.  They refuse to be under God’s Lordship.  They take after their leader, Satan, who did not want to submit to God’s authority.  He rebelled against God and lost his place in heaven.  
  • Adam and Eve’s eldest son, Cain, killed his brother for no good reason.  He refused God’s advice.  He moved away from God. 4  That is the blueprint for the world – hatred against God’s people, for no reason at all.    

Jesus affirmed the hatred of the world against God’s people

  • Jesus taught us about the hostility of the world, ‘If the world [read people who are under the influence of Satan] hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first.  If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own.  As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world.  That is why the world hates you.’ 5  We have to understand:  
  • The two kingdoms are irreconcilable.  They are at war with each other.   There can never be peace and any agreement between the two – no harmony, no common ground.  
  • 1 John 2:15-18 says the follower of Christ is not to love the world.   James 4:4  is even more blunt, ‘You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world is hatred towards God?’  

Jesus secured the victory of the Kingdom of Light  

The two kingdoms have two different eternal destinations.  That is why it is so important to know to which kingdom one belongs.  

  • God’s people will be with Him eternally,  ‘Then I saw a new heaven and earth….   And I heard a loud voice saying, ‘Now the dwelling of God is with men, and He will live with them.   They will be His people, and God Himself will be with them and be their God.’ 6
  • People of the world who remained in Satan’s kingdom, will share the place he goes to,  ’And the devil who deceived them [the nations], was thrown into the lake of burning sulphur…they will be tormented day and night for ever and ever….  If anyone’s name was not found written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire.’ 7 
  • When Satan rebelled against God, he was provisionally sentenced to eternal hell.  He does his best to keep that knowledge away from people.  He fights against the Bible that reveals his eternal destination.  If people of the world realise what their end will be, they will immediately discern the devil’s agenda and know what to do: run to Jesus.  

Jesus wants people saved, Satan doesn’t want them saved 

  • God’s purpose:
    • ‘…God our Saviour…wants all men to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth.’ 8  
    • “The King [Jesus] will say to those on His right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the Kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world.'” 9 
  • Satan’s purpose:

He has a single goal.  It is to make sure as many people as possible inherit the same hell he is condemned to, “Then He [Jesus] will say to those on His left, ‘Depart from me, you who are cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels’….” 10  

To be continued…. 


  1. Matthew 4:8-9  
  2. John 12:31;14:30; 16:11  
  3. Matthew 12:24-28  
  4. Genesis 4:1-16  
  5. John 15:18-19  
  6. Revelation 21:1-3  
  7. Revelation 20:10,15  
  8. 1 Timothy 2:3  
  9. Matthew 25:34  
  10. Matthew 25:41

Author: Gerard and Alida

As you can see in the photo, there are two of us. We live and work together 24/7, studying and enjoying our grandchildren. Our passion is to know and understand what will happen after death. Is there a way to provide for and invest in that?

One thought on “The War against Marriage, Part 2 of 4”

  1. This is a great post! You are so right that satan has one goal—to bring many along with him to hell. And aren’t we glad Jesus is here to stop that! We know Who wins in the end. Blessings.


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